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Question for you: How do you show up in the movie of your life?

Any great story line, whether it be told via a movie, a novel, or short story, has a collection of various characters that keeps the plot moving and spectators intrigued to see how it all unfolds. We’ve all learned about these in fifth grade English, but let’s do a quick refresher on the main ones:

There’s the protagonist, who the story centers around. The character that typically faces a challenge and has to encounter/overcome many different kinds of characters in order to achieve their goal.

Then there’s the antagonist who is constantly looking to undermine, thwart or oppose the mission of the protagonist.

Finally, there’s the deuteragonist, who is like the understudy to the protagonist. Not exactly in the spotlight but close to it (think of Donkey to Shrek, or Dory to Marlin in “Finding Nemo”…. I really tried to use some non-animated references but, alas, I failed).

If you look at your own life as a story, you could look at the descriptions above and quickly realize that all of these roles can exist simultaneously within you, and your decisions become guided by the type of character you spend the most time playing. The protagonist in you seeks growth, change, love, risk and adventure. While the antagonist in you puts up mental obstacles and draws on previous trauma and negative thoughts that convince you that you aren’t deserving of that life. Which, inevitably leads you to the life of the deuteragonist who remains in the shadow of your protagonist self, or who you could become. Enter, Happy Main Character Energy!

Question for you: Do you have Happy Main Character Energy

Main character energy is a trend that began on TikTok in 2020 that encouraged people to view themselves as the main character of a movie. When I heard this phrase I instantly connected with it because it perfectly describes the IT factor that separates the person whose romantic life inspires hope from those that seem to lack inspiration altogether. I added the word “happy” in front because, I don’t know about you, but I’ve watched a gang of movies where the main character’s story ended tragically.

I believe people’s love lives should be a lot of things, tragic isn’t one of them.

A single person who has Happy Main Character Energy in dating enjoys the opportunity to meet new people, doesn’t hold onto those who aren’t for them, meets challenges head on because they are excited for opportunities to learn, is comfortable working towards a better version of self and has a light energy around dating since they know ultimately this movie is about them and thus, things will always work out in their favor.

Someone who has Happy Main Character Energy in a relationship is their best self around their partner, is constantly working to raise the bar on what their “best self” means, inspires others to achieve their potential as both their romantic partner and as their own individual and loves without unnecessary guards up since they know their movie is going to end in triumph not tragedy.

Question for you: How can you embody Happy Main Character Energy?

There isn’t a quick answer to this question, which is why I’m asking for an entire weekend of your time to show you, step-by-step. For the first time I will merge the concept of “Happy Main Character Energy” and dating/relationship in a hands-on, intensive, virtual weekend retreat. The retreat is for both single and partnered people who want to learn the secret to a love life worth living for. Become the person everyone looks to for inspiration on how to create an intimate life hallmarked by enjoyment, clarity, control and whole-life-enriching learning experiences.

Question for me: What will you get out of this weekend?

During this 15 hour hands-on and immersive weekend experience, you will…

• turn your tragedies into turning points and become an expert on marketing yourself and telling your empowering story to attract an abundance in love

• learn from a PhD how to rewire your brain to get learn from loss and lead with happiness

• become inspired by Ashlee Marie Preston, a transgender woman who went from experiencing homelessness and drug dependency to running for office in California and being the first Editor in Chief for a national magazine. Find out how she leads with Happy Main Character Energy, despite all odds, in her relationship and her career.

• understand how to bring the best out of others through the art of seduction

• master the art of body language, flirting, and upgrade your look with what is already in your closet and make-up bag with expert stylists and make-up artists

• learn practical tips on how to use happy main character energy to improve your sex life

• use what you’ve learned about love to get the most out of your relationships, dating life, career, parenting and marriage

• mix seductive cocktails and prepare a meal that appeals

• use guided group exercises that expose your antagonist tendencies and promote your inner Happy Main Character

• walk away with a custom workbook that documents your path and plan toward embodying Happy Main Character Energy beyond the weekend retreat.

Let’s start re-writing your movie!

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This full weekend experience includes a minimum* of 15 hours spent with me, guest speakers and a handful of like-minded people who like you, are ready to learn a new super power.

The total cost of the retreat is $489, but you can get 20% off if you start and submit Self-Summary Workbook. Once you submit, you will receive a promocode to apply at checkout for your discount. Payments can be made in full upfront, or with a 50% deposit today and balance due by April 15th. If you require the payment plan option, please send an email to hi@shanboodram.com.

In order to keep the experience as intimate as possible, spots are extremely limited and will be awarded on a first come, first serve basis.

*One-on-One mentorship experience is available at an additional fee of $489 and includes 2 x 60 minute one-one sessions. The first one will be scheduled with me one week following the event. We will dig deeper on everything we learned during the event and I’ll help you to personalize the HMCE information so that you get the most from the experience. After our session, a follow-up one-on-one will be schedule with Lauren Morrison, Personal & Professional Coach. to hone your HMCE action and accountability plan to ensure you don’t lose momentum on becoming the person you set out to be.

Still not convinced? I am offering a money back guarantee! I have no interest in taking without you gaining. If extenuating circumstances arise and you can’t come - give me 24 hours notice and we’ll get you your coins back.

*24 hour cancellation notice is required in order to obtain a full refund or credit.

Happy main character energy weekend

— VIRTUAL GROUP RETREAT —

Friday, April 16: 7-9PM EST

Shan breaks down the concept of Happy Main Character Energy followed by a Happy Hour social with your classmates and a professional Mixologist

Saturday, April 17: 11AM-5PM EST

We start the weekend a keynote from Dr. Sophia Godkin, the Happiness Doctor, about making changes your brain in order to create the love life you want; followed by a powerful fireside chat with Ashlee Marie Preston, Media Personality and Social Impact Strategist, on how Happy Main Character Energy has been transformative in her journey. Throughout the day we will dive deeper into themes from these keynotes with self-awareness workshops and breakout rooms in order to understand what Happy Main Character Energy feels like and how it changes how you interact with yourself.

Sunday, April 18: 11AM-5PM EST

Now we take all those inner Happy Main Character vibes from the inside and transform our outside with hand-on make-up and wardrobe workshops with Kevin Wade and Yuri Loza. Then we end the weekend off with a live cooking session, followed by dinner, hosted by Lauren Morrison.

— ONE-ON-ONE FOLLOW-UP SESSIONS —

So many people leave a course feeling excited and energized, but then lose that momentum due to a lack of new learning and accountability. Regular life creeps in and brings old habits along with it. Don’t let this be you!

Saturday, April 24: 11AM-5PM EST

In this personal and intimate 1:1, you and Shan will dig deeper on everything you learned during the event and Shan will help you to personalize the HMCE information so that you get the most from the experience.

Sunday, April 25: 11AM-5PM EST

Hone your HMCE action and accountability plan with Lauren Morrison, Professional & Personal Coach, to ensure you don’t lose momentum on becoming the person you set out to be.

OUR SPECIAL GUESTS

ASHLEE MARIE PRESTON | @ASHLEEMARIEPRESTON

Media Personality & Founder of #YouAreEssential

Ashlee Marie Preston is an award-winning Media Personality, Cultural Commentator, Social Impact Strategist, Political Analyst, & Civil Rights Activist. She is historically the first trans woman to become Editor in Chief of a national publication and the first openly trans person to run for state office in California. Ashlee Marie was named one of The Root 100's "Most Influential African Americans of 2017", profiled as one of LOGO/NewNowNext’s 30 Most Influential LGBTQ Influencers of 2017 & 2018, PopSugar's top 40 LGBTQ's of 2017, OUT Magazine’s OUT100 of 2018, made her TED talk debut in September of 2018, and was chosen as one of Coca-Cola’s “Next Generation LGBTQ Leadership” influencers of 2018. In addition she was honored as one of Essence Magazine’s “WOKE 100” of 2019 and is a former national surrogate for Elizabeth Warren’s 2020 Presidential Campaign.

DR. SOphia godkin, PHD | @thehappinessdoctor

Health Psychologist & Founder at The Happiness Doctor

Sophia Godkin, PhD is a Health Psychologist, Happiness & Relationship Coach, and Author recognized internationally for helping people learn to love themselves, create pleasure-filled relationships, and become happy from the inside out without having to force or fake it. As a renowned coach and happiness expert, Dr Sophia has coached hundreds of people and taught dozens of workshops on the principles and practices of happiness, whole-hearted living, and conscious relationships all around the world. Whether in the form of individual coaching, writing, or group education, Dr Sophia is known for the depth, light-heartedness, and healing potential of her work.

KEVIN WADE | @IAMKEVINWADE

Shan’s + celebrity make-up artist

Celebrity Make-up Artist Kevin Wade is one of the most sought-after make-up artist’s in the industry, and Wade’s mission statement is simple: “Men and women of color deserve just as much recognition in the beauty industry”. In addition to being Shan’s resident make-up artist on shows such as ‘Make-up or Break-up” and Sexology on Quibi, Kevin Wade has been recognized for his impressive body of work with the likes of Boyz II Men, Kip Force (from Bravo’s Millionaire Matchmatcher and VHI’s I Love Money) and pop-singer, Tinashe (signed with Columbia Universal Republic and RCA Records), and Celebrity Custom Wig Maker Toyko Stylez just to name a few. He is also happens to be a Beauty Influencer & Photographer, too.

Yuri s loza | @ysloza

Shan’s + celebrity stylist

Yuri Loza is a TV and Celebrity stylist, who has been working in the entertainment industry for over 16 years. Styling talent from numerous reality and game shows to Emmy award winning talk show hosts, she prides herself in styling people as they are naturally and not putting them into a “box.” Her take on fashion and style is, you don’t need to “break the bank” to look as if you did. She loves to keep it real on and off set.

LAUREN MORRISON | @THisISLAURENELIZABETH

Professional & Personal Coach

Professionally, Lauren is the Director of Business Operations at a major telecommunications corporation, and the owner of I Have the Floor, which offers professional coaching for women, as well as a public speaker and the marketing and communications lead the Black Professionals Network. Throughout her career, Lauren has coached and mentored many in the professional space with a focus on men and women of color. Those who have benefited from Lauren’s mentorship have gone on to build executive presence as well as earn promotions, exceptional performance ratings, and increased salaries. Lauren is a mother and a wife with a passion for maintaining a balanced healthy lifestyle. In her early years of motherhood, she became a virtual fitness coach, whereby she motivated hundreds of women and men in their own personal journeys to build healthier lives and stronger bodies. This is where her passion for coaching others to become their best selves was born. Through the journey of fitness, Lauren has learned a thing or two about discipline and mental toughness, which has carried her through to success in all areas of life.